ISSUE 62 ISSN 1712-468

Selling is the most important skill for any entrepreneur, business owner, or individual who wants to be successful.  

Robert Kiyosaki
Author, Rich Dad Poor Dad

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This Week´s Inspiration

If You Can’t Sell, You Can’t Succeed

Selling: to transfer property, services, ideas, or loyalty to another

Mention selling or sales to the majority of individuals and death seems a more attractive option. The ability to sell—if not the most important skill a person needs to succeed—is certainly in the top three. 

Now before half the readers get defensive, let me explain.

Sales is the activity that breathes life into any economy, business, or venture. Take away sales and you have nothing. Yet the fear and loathing around selling results in more personal and business failures than any other single factor. 

After a recent event where I presented, one of the participants wrote me a scathing email about the fact that I promoted (sold) products during the program. She said it was unethical to sell, promote, or market anything at an event and that she was going to report me to her association. 

Wow! Obviously selling had hit an emotional cord with her. But get this—the program I was conducting was on How to Succeed in Marketing and Selling Yourself and Your Business. Ooops! Maybe she thought she was attending another program.

It does not matter what position, role, or level of responsibility you have; you are involved in selling—whether or not you think you are. Every day you are selling and people are selling to you.

  • The doctor sells you on his/her recommended treatment.
  • You sell yourself in a job interview.
  • You sell your boss when you ask for a promotion or raise.
  • You are selling when you ask someone on a date or to marry you.
  • Your kids are always selling you on the latest, greatest toy.
  • The politician sells you his/her platform to get your vote.
  • Your significant other sells to you when he or she wants to go on a holiday.
  • And on it goes. 

Whether you like it or not, life is all about selling.

At a recent seminar on business and financial success, one of the participants asked the speaker, “What if I don’t have the gift of the gab and I can’t sell?” The speaker’s response? “You’re screwed!” 

And he’s right. There’s no replacement or alternative to the skill of selling unless, of course, it’s not important to you to achieve your goals, dreams, or aspirations.

There’s simply not enough space in this short ezine to impart sales skills training. I will, however, outline where you need to start.

First, if you have an aversion to sales, selling, and sales professionals, you need to find a way to liberate that belief system. 

Unfortunately, many individuals associate “sales” with some sleazy, high-pressure salesman they have encountered. After my own successful sales career and as a sales trainer to the auto industry for over a decade, I understand that some sales professions have poor reputations. 

Regrettably, some sales trainers still teach 101 ways to close the sale and how to deal with objections. They are way out of touch with what sales is really all about! They are repeating crusty, outdated junk from the 50s. 

Please don’t buy into that rubbish. Today’s sales professionals are a whole new breed. Our research shows that the top sales reps are excellent listeners—not smooth talkers. 

Selling does not determine your character, values, or ethics. It is simply a skill set blended with confidence and emotions. It is critical to understand that as you go forward. Sales skills and the character and ethics of the individual who deploys them are two separate entities. 

True sales success is always about building a relationship between or among parties where the interaction results in mutual benefits. 

If by chance you are one of the many who loathe everything about selling, your journey will include overcoming that negative mindset. Until you upgrade your attitude, your success as an individual will be limited. If you are an entrepreneur, that state of mind will be disastrous for you! 

The book that will support our sales training program Why Don’t You Sell The Way That I Buy?™ will be available in a few months. In the meantime, I will recommend a few other resources for you. 

  • Complete the Sales Style Indicator to better understand your strengths and weaknesses in the sales process. 
  • Use the Self Worth Inventory to better understand how you can increase your confidence in five critical areas. Successful sales reps are confident individuals. 
  • Download the My Source EXPERIENCE Journal™ to assist you in documenting what causes you to be passionate and on purpose. A person must be passionate about whatever he or she is promoting, supporting, or selling. 

In the end, the skill of selling is critical to your success. Don’t let anyone say it isn’t—especially you!

This Week´s Action Steps

If You Can’t Sell, You Can’t Succeed

  1. You must acknowledge the fact that selling is one of the most important skills you can acquire and deploy to be successful in any and all parts of your life.
  2. What is your attitude toward sales, sales promotion, and sales professionals? 
  3. Do you love selling? If not, why not? Document all your concerns in writing.
  4. What negative issues (if any) do you need to overcome to make sales a priority and acceptable to you?
  5. Forget what others think or say about sales. If they have a negative opinion about sales, they probably are not successful, especially in business.
  6. Avoid any sales training or advice that suggests you must be dishonest to succeed. The art of selling does not mean selling your soul and conducting yourself in an unethical manner. In fact, it is just the opposite.
  7. To be successful in any sales endeavour, you must love what you do and be passionate about what you are promoting. To help clarify this, download and use the My Source EXPERIENCE Journal™ as a process to assist you. If you don’t believe in what you are promoting, no one will. You just can’t fake it.
  8. To build your sales skills and confidence, complete the Sales Style Indicator and Self Worth Inventory.
  9. To grow, link yourself with successful individuals who have high selling skills and who share your values and ethics.
  10. Make a commitment to enhance and improve your selling skills, no matter your current level of skill or responsibility.
  11. Sales is about helping others and helping yourself, too. What could be more honorable than that?

Until next time, keep Living On Purpose!.

Ken Keis

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