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From
Why Aren't You More Like Me?
The Chapter on Values
Part One of Two
What Do You Really Value?
No one can
clearly state why certain things motivate some people and not others, but we do
know that each of us has underlining behavioral values that energize and
fulfill us.
When I speak
at conferences, some individuals call me a motivational speaker.
I disagree
with the characterization.
In reality,
no one can motivate anyone to do anything.
But let me push your thinking one step further and
suggest this . . .
True
Motivation is a Myth.
The pursuit of interests
(core values) requires no motivation because we enjoy them. Interests compel us;
we are pulled or attracted. That precludes any need for motivation.
We require motivation only for the things that don’t interest
us.
In Why
Aren’t You More Like Me?™ we ground you in the powerful knowledge of
style and the way it applies in all areas of your life. We don’t have time in
the book to take you on a journey to confirm your life purpose, interests,
talents, gifts, or calling; that is the content and process in another of my
books, My Source Journal EXPERIENCE™.
In this
chapter, I will show
- the power of
living your life, based on your core behavioral values;
- why values
are critical to living a life on purpose;
- that other
people can and do have values different from yours;
- and that they, too,
want to experience their unique and distinct values.
What is a Value?
A value is something that has great
desirability or worth to you—it is important enough that you spend time trying
to obtain or keep it as part of your lifestyle. A value is simply a label for
something that is imperative to you. For the purposes of this book and our Values
Preference Indicator, values are internal and personal to you.
You will find you have embraced certain
values from your environment and/or social factors; other values seem part of
your genetic makeup. Regardless of the potential source or circumstances, the
key is to understand that your values are uniquely yours.
Your values reflect a vital part of who you
are. Knowing what is most important to you and why can be helpful
for making meaningful decisions in all parts of your life. It is very difficult
to make decisions about work, recreation, home, and interpersonal relationships
without first knowing what is most important to you.
People who are confused and unclear about
their values often have difficulty making the bigger decisions in life because
they do not know themselves well enough to decide what would be best for them. That
is especially true today with all the mixed messages that pull us in various
directions.
For instance, if you value organization, you
will work best in an organized environment. If you value pleasure, you will
value situations and people who create pleasurable experiences for you.
Individuals tend to value different things and types of situations because they
have different needs within them. In my professional opinion,
everything in your life is a reflection of the values you are embracing and
living. The research is clear; the majority of individuals are, at some level,
unhappy with their lives.
In the area of relationships, a recent study
identified
that 93% of us feel we have settled for less
than we want, desire, or deserve.
The Importance of Values Cuts Two Ways
As critical as it is to be clear about our
own values, it is equally important to understand the values and related needs
of the major interpersonal relationships in your life.
People with different values tend to disagree
more than individuals with similar values.
Conflict in relationships, both at home and
at work, often can occur because two individuals have opposite views on a
situation. Their perceptions and viewpoints are largely influenced by their values.
For example, a wife who values security may
argue with her husband who values recreation because he wants to buy a
speedboat, but she prefers to use their resources to open a savings account.
Values by definition are intensely personal.
That is true for you and for everyone you meet. It is key to remember that what you
feel is important (value) might not even make the radar of another
person, and vice versa.
Although that observation seems blatantly
obvious, many individuals still do not acknowledge the various values that each
of us holds and the deep implications that values have in ALL our
interactions with others.
We suggest that you encourage the people with
whom you interact—both personally and professionally—to get clear about your
values. Consider completing CRG’s Values Preference Indicator and
use the process as a center point for discussions so you can understand each
other better.
The power of the values clarification is
equally as profound for learning what other people value as it is for learning
what you value.
Each style
dimension has related needs, fears, and values. What drives me to behave in
certain ways may not drive you.
For example,
I spent long hours sitting at a computer, writing this book. The decision to
use this time to produce a book rather than do something else was inspired by
my values, which include needs and fears. The variables will differ for others,
inspiring them to use their time to complete tasks such as restoring an old car
or learning a foreign language. I have little interest in doing either! The interesting question, therefore, is this: How are individuals inspired to do one thing
rather than another? Understanding the answer to this question is a key to
understanding other people and ourselves.
Inspiration, then, is the impulse
which sets creation in movement; it is also the energy which keeps it going.
Theories on internal
motivation suggest we are stimulated to engage things that meet our predominant
needs and to disengage from activities that do not meet our needs. When something consistently meets a
particular need of ours, it becomes more attractive and valuable to us. We
value most whatever best meets our needs.
Author Anthony
Robbins for the past 20 years has outlined motivation as moving toward or moving away from events and stimuli with which we either
connect or disconnect.
We can tell
what is important to us by listening to the “voice” of our feelings. Feelings
are related to needs and values. When you feel satisfied to engage in a
particular activity, something about that activity is meeting a need of yours;
when you feel dissatisfied, that activity does not fulfill your needs.
Activities
that consistently make you feel positive (happy, joyful, confident, proud) are
therefore more important and valuable to you than activities that leave you
feeling negative (upset, sad, mad, disappointed, depressed). Take a moment to review the following list of 21
values. From the list, identify what you feel are your top 7 values in the
order of priority for you. There is space provided for you to list them.
A List of Typical
Personal Values
Values |
Definitions |
Accomplishments |
To complete tasks, get results |
Acknowledgement |
To be appreciated and rewarded
for your efforts |
Challenge |
To live an active and exciting life, achieving targets |
Cooperation |
To get along well with others, influencing family harmony and teamwork in the workplace |
Creativity |
To be able to experiment with
and develop new ideas and things |
Expertise |
To be an expert in a special subject
or skill area |
Friendship |
To have valuable friendships |
Honesty |
To be truthful and have others
be truthful, too |
Independence |
To have freedom of action, to be primarily responsible for making decisions about your life |
Instruction |
To acquire new information and
share it with others |
Intimacy |
To share close companionship
and/or deep affection with someone |
Organization |
To plan and carry out logical and structured procedures. |
Pleasure |
To be happy, contented, and comfortable with life;
to have fun |
Quality |
To maintain a high standard of work with only
a few errors |
Recognition |
To become well known, obtain awards, and attain
a special status |
Responsibility |
To be in charge, lead others, organize events,
and make decisions |
Security |
To have protection and security
in personal and financial situations |
Spirituality |
To have inner peace, an understanding of life and death, and communion with God |
Tranquility |
To enjoy peace and quiet and a life with few personal conflicts |
Variety |
To have a life with many different experiences, but few rules and set routines |
Wealth |
To achieve financial independence
and control in personal and business realms |
1. __________________________________
2. __________________________________
3. __________________________________
4. __________________________________
5. __________________________________
6. __________________________________
7. __________________________________
What Do You Really Value?
Values should be anchor points for living our
lives. After conducting values programs (in conjunction with style programs)
for more than 30 years, with thousands of individuals, we are continually surprised
by the high percentage of people who are unclear or uncertain about their
values.
If you are willing to easily change or sell
out on a value, we maintain that value was not important to you in the first
place. Although values do change and are revised throughout your lifetime (such
as when individuals have children), there is usually a solid foundation of core
behavioral values that is non-negotiable.
When reviewing the list of values, many times
people want to have 7 number one values. But you can’t have 7 number one
values.
Whether we realize it or not, we are
constantly choosing one value over another in our daily lives. In many cases,
what we state is important to us is not always reflected in our life choices. Have you heard people say
their family is important, yet they never spend time with them? That is a
simple example of stated values being incongruent with actions.
I
recall a time when I was being challenged with my values. A friend called to
invite me to a special meeting outlining an investment opportunity. He said
this opportunity was by invitation only; the investment packages where limited
so it was important to get to this first meeting. I agreed to attend that Thursday
at 7 PM.
It
was just after 6 PM on Thursday when my wife Brenda called me from her cell to
ask if I was driving to the kids’ concert on my own or did I want her to pick
me up from the office?
Wow!
I had completely forgotten about the concert and Mike was about to arrive to
take me to the meeting.
I
shared my dilemma with Brenda and asked her to tell the kids that I had given
my word to Mike so I would not be at their event. Brenda in her wisdom said, “No,
you tell the kids you are not coming,” and handed the phone to my son Tim.
I
proceeded to sell my 9-year-old on the merits of keeping my word to Mike and
that I was planning to go to the meeting. I also promised to view the video of
the concert with both kids as soon as I got home.
Tim,
with his great insight, said, “Daddy, why don’t you just say No to Mike?” I thought about it . . . and I attended the kids’
concert.
Every day
your choices reveal not only your style preferences but your core values.
But why the
delay on my part—in choosing the concert over the meeting? Some false beliefs
were influencing my desire to attend the investment meeting; one was the fear
of loss. I was incorrectly framing the meeting as my last chance to get into a
ground-level development with a high rate of return.
I must have
thought there would never ever be another investment opportunity like that one!
In hindsight, that was not true. The real truth was that my children would
never again have that concert.
So what about
you? Are you aware of your core values and the related needs and fears that
underlie each value?
And are you
also aware of the core values of the people that make up your most important
relationships? If not, use this chapter to start a dialogue about each other’s
values. One option is to go online at www.crgleader.com and complete the Values
Preference Indicator to help confirm your values.
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